How long would it take you to forgive someone you felt had put your child in danger because of poor judgment?

I totally understand how you see this. He probably should've realized that you didn't wanna ruin anything and you probably really begged your friends mom not to call.. He could've took that more into consideration. I can also see why he would be that mad though. I think he shouldn't hold a grudge. Life is too short to focus all your attention on being mad at one person. But yeah, I think he should have forgiven her by now.

My car sounds terrible but when i took it to mechanic he says there's nothing wrong?!!!?

Maybe you had on some crappy radio station, that cRap music or that cRock stuff makes a lot of unnecessary noise

How do you get over a phobia?

Okay so I am terrified of all insects except for flies, mosquitoes, and bees and I have been since I was a kid (I'm guessing around 5ish). Before I was afraid of them I used to love insects and arachnids but then I started getting recurring nightmares about them and the fear has stuck. I don't want to be afraid anymore and I don't want my friends and family to continue making fun of me but I get nauseated when I talk about, see, or even think about them and I start hyperventilating sometimes. How can I get rid of this?

Is this normal, and does anyone else have a smiliar experience?

Not everyone is a social butterfly, and not everyone enjoys the company of others for extended periods of time. I myself only have one person i spend any lengthy amount of time with, and prefer it that way. To become bored with social interactions really is a common, and normal, state of being.

Simple hamster cage without wheel ?

i have a hamster cage but i want a silent spinner in it but theres not enough room so i want to get a simple cage with no wheel or a wheel that comes off . I just want to attach that simple cage to the one i have now so i dont really want much in it . Does the critter universe ECO wheel come off ? Cuz if it does ill get that but anywhere you know where i can buy a cheapppppp cage like that ? Thanks (:

I think girls think I'm ugly, and I don't know what to do?

So I always thought myself as attractive till about 13~ and then I started blaming things for my unattractiveness. First, it was my acne, but now that's pretty controlled. Then, I thought it was my nose because my nose is kinda big (not like a circus freak big or anything) but really when it comes down to it I think its my overall face structure. I have short very dark brown hair, average brown eyes, a very protruded brow ridge (my biggest insecurity), average ears, very defined jawline (little less than Brad Pitt), and pretty nice lips (not thin). I am super nice to girls I think because it's so hard to get one to even pay attention to me, but not overly nice to where I would creep them out. I am average at talking to girls, and am especially funny. I wear cologne, make sure I have good breath, and wear clothes in style. I am 6 feet tall, 16 years old, and 150-160ish pounds, with a slightly muscular build and really no fat. The few times I get girl's numbers I always get the feeling they wanna be just friends because they call me "best friend" and send hearts really early on, something which you wouldn't do to someone you have feelings for. Also girls always joke around calling me sexy, and trust me I know they're not serious it's a recurring joke. Also, most of the times girls will tell me one of my friends is sexy or cute or can I have their number which is a pretty big indication they don't really feel much for me. Idk if I should put pictures up you guys tell me. Could I maybe send them to you?

Polygraph for dealing with trust issues?

go on maury - if he is telling the truth - you need to get on your knees and beg for forgiveness - I do NOT see that happening - he WILL be found guilty and then you can move on with your life right? nope, you won't leave anyway - so what is the point? if you are willing to leave him if he was unfaithful - call Maury so you can get a reality check and dump this cheater . . .